Have you ever wonder what it would be like to achieve all the things you put down on the last day of each year? Yes, I’m talking about that infamous New Year resolution. How many of us actually achieve all of the things on that list? If you come across this blog and you did achieve all your goals, please contact us to share your story. For certain, it is not easy otherwise more of us would be successful. There are many factors contributing to achieving these goals but for now we will focus to the MOST important element and that is YOU.
The greatest achievement or the worst failure come from the same source, you. It entirely depends on you that will determine the outcome. We all have our greatest ally and that is the person in the mirror. You must get the discipline, motivation and determination from this person otherwise it is not possible. He will help push you to be the best you can be. You can groom him to be your servant but you must take the time to train, discipline and evaluate to reach your goal. You also must be patience. Things cannot happen right away, it takes time and effort but you can control it. You must learn to love the process instead of only looking for the end result.
The worst enemy, believe it or not, is also the person in the mirror. This person can prolonged your success to infinity because he will come up with many things to convince you that it is not possible to achieve success. Remember it takes consistent efforts to reach success but it takes nothing to remain mediocre. If each day you let this self to dominate then the life of mediocrity and anguish is guaranteed. A large percentage of the population is in this group. This life is a sad life but sometimes we won’t realize it until it is too late. My advice to you is continue this life at your own peril.
So you don’t need to look far to know how to achieve success you just need to look in the mirror. What you have to know is how big is your WHY. If your reason for achieving success doesn’t carry a weight in your life then you will give up rather quickly when facing difficulties. But if the why is strong then it will enable you to overcome obstacles. Another way to increase the chance of success is to employ the help of a coach, a mentor or a consultant. They can be seen as expensive but if we truly examine we will see that they can push us to achieve success. This would make their service worth the price. Even if move just a little it’s still much better than sitting and wonder what have I done this year. Another is to have a close knit group of supporters. They can push you to achieve absolutely anything. There is a process to select members for the support group but the rule of thumb is each member should be allowed to freely express his opinions without prejudice.
In any case, it boils down to YOU that will determine success. You must know who you are and what you want. If you need some advice don’t hesitate to contact us, it’s FREE. We’re looking forward to hearing from you. We offer coaching and consulting so talk to us today, don’t wait for a better future.